

The Courting Club
A gentle, hosted social club for single adults aged 45–65 in Wiltshire.
Inspired by the warmth, sincerity and courtesy of traditional courting.
🌸 THE COURTING CLUB RULES
A Gentle Code of Conduct for Meaningful, Respectful Connection
The Courting Club is a warm, curated space created to help sincere singles meet with kindness, dignity and ease.
To ensure everyone feels comfortable and safe, we follow a simple and elegant set of courtesies — inspired by traditional values of respect.
These rules are not restrictions.
They are the foundation of a calm, uplifting atmosphere where connection grows naturally.
⭐ 1. Kindness First
Please speak and act with warmth, courtesy and consideration.
Every guest should feel welcomed, accepted and respected.
⭐ 2. Slow, Intentional Connection
Our gatherings are designed to be gentle and unrushed.
No pressure, no intensity, no expectations.
Let conversation unfold naturally.
⭐ 3. Respect Boundaries Without Question
A “no thank you” — in any form — must be acknowledged gracefully.
We honour each person’s comfort and pace.
⭐ 4. Privacy & Discretion
Stories shared within the club stay within the club.
Please do not share personal information, photos, or conversations without consent.
⭐ 5. No Contact Exchange Without Consent
Do not ask directly for phone numbers or emails unless the other person expresses interest.
If unsure, the host can guide this gently.
⭐ 6. Alcohol in Moderation
Our events are calm, elegant, and respectful.
We ask that guests enjoy drinks responsibly.
⭐ 7. No Selling or Promotion
The Courting Club is a space for sincere connection —
not networking, selling products, or promoting services.
⭐ 8. Be Fully Present
Phones away whenever possible.
Give your full attention to the person in front of you.
Presence is the heart of meaningful connection.
⭐ 9. Honour the Space
Dress smartly, arrive on time, and help maintain a warm atmosphere.
We create beauty together through our presence and consideration.
⭐ 10. Host Guidance
Please follow the light structure offered by the host.
This ensures everyone feels included and at ease.
🌿 If Something Feels Uncomfortable
Please speak privately with the host.
Your comfort and safety are our priority, and we will respond discreetly and supportively.
🌸 A Final Thought
The Courting Club is built on gentleness — a place where curiosity replaces pressure, sincerity replaces performance,
and where each person is treated with care.
By honouring these rules, you help create an atmosphere where meaningful relationships can blossom.
Thank you for being part of a more elegant way to connect.